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DebbieD Posts: 3,540

Well its nigh on impossible to kick someone if you're one legged  bear_rolleyes   I'm hoping the police will at least tell you what they thought after finding him....in other words whether it would be wise for you to press charges, or just drop them. 

I'm afraid in this scenario you ended up making yourself a target  bear_sad   Its not great, and it certainly does NOT justify this man's reactions, but in a heightened scenario, he was looking for someone to lash out at ~ and you got the brunt of it  bear_sad   I wouldn't doubt he was over the top with adrenaline, probably from the ongoing arguement with the other man under some questionable driving conditions.  Only takes just a small thing to present a target, and then its all reflex reactions from there....

But to hear about all your other woes atop  :hug: Honey, your luck has GOT to change!  :hug:   As the others say, these things travel in threes.  Go buy that lotto ticket, and steer clear of the choco.  Get yourself a new bear or some fab mohair to play with instead.   bear_thumb

Stellajella Wien
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Cheeses!!! Now that is disturbing!!!
I wish you all the best!!! :hug:

Gaby bear_flower

djbbears Queensland
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Oh Sandra that is just so bad that this day and age people can be so nasty.......I beleive in karma and he will get his fair share........Yes a lotto ticket is good and one chooky wouldn't hurt or a stiff drink bear_thumb ...........Hope you are feeling better, the main thing is you have your pride and at the end of the day you are a better person......him well what can i say but the good ole Karma again..............You go and relax and have time for you and your family.........many Hugs to you. :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:


Take care
Be Safe



Debbie

gotobedbears Posts: 3,177

What an awful thing to have happened to you - i do hope the police catch the evil old devil and throw him in jail. He's obviously a nut with a short fuse.
I hope you get over this really quickly my dear  :hug:  bear_wub  :hug:

Penny  bear_flower

Carolyn Green Draffin Bears
Auckland New Zealand
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That is just so awful for you Sandra.
I hope that you are feeling better and sending big hugs your way.

Carolyn
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I Love Teddies South Florida
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Sandra, that's terrible!  I'm so sorry this happened to you.  What an awful person.  I hope you feel better soon.   :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

Mitch2052 Blue Valley Bears
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Dear Sandra,
What a terrible experience to have happen to you, bear_angry I can't imagine how upsetting it must be and just for trying to help !!!
I hope he gets his just deserts plus some and that you will be O.K.  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:
Cheers Susan

Marie_ Kiprie Bears
Yokohama, Japan
Posts: 2,735

Oh Sandra, how terrible... bear_cry
That is just not fiar......
I hope you are felling little better.  Please take care of your self and
get some rest for you.   :hug:

hugs
Marie

Celena Oxford
Posts: 461

Oh dear Sandra....this is HORRIBLE  bear_angry  What a crazy person!  I hope you are feeling much more better now...really a horrible experience.  Sending you  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  and well wishes  bear_flower

Beary hugs
Celena

SueAnn Past Time Bears
Double Oak, Texas
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Sandra, I hope you're feeling much better.  You've had a terrible trauma and I'm so sorry that you experienced such violent and despicable behavior.  Many hugs coming your way.  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

matilda Matilda Huggington-beare
WA
Posts: 5,551

Oh my goodness gracious Sandra, What on earth is happening to Australia. The violence and anger that is displayed lately is down right scary. 
I personally believe it is all the medication we are taking and compounded by the fact that when they are caught nothing happens to them any way. They just get away with it. bear_angry  bear_angry

I'm truely sorry this happened to you :hug: it is an experience that will take a long time to shake off and will colour your decisions for years to come.  :hug: That alone should be enough reason  to punish this horrid man. All my best possum :hug:  bear_flower Chin up,shoulders back, boobs out and buttoms in bear_thumb

aerianna aerBears
Sacramento, CA
Posts: 1,109

Holy cow Sandra! Are you ok? What a horrible (and painful) day you had. I hope that guy gets in some trouble. I wonder what is going on in his life?  Why anyone would hit a woman with a brace on her leg is beyond me!
Be careful!
Aerianna

kerrenmorris K M Bears
UK
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oh my goodness that is horrible, i hope you are feeling better now.  :hug:
hugs Kerren

beary_clairey Luton
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Sandra, I am so stunned!! I couldn't believe it when I read your post. You should have kicked him hard with your cast.

Problem is you never know how you will react until your in these situations.I probably be more defensive if someone I loved got hurt, if it was me and I was on my own I'd probably just want to get away. He could have hurt you alot more than he did. Nothing is worth that!!!

I'm sending you a big healing hug  :hug: !!!

I think you should pursue it if he's caught. People like that need to know they cannot get away with it - no matter how bad their day was. That guy had no right to touch you !!!

What would you have done if that had been your daughter??

Hugs

Claire

majdle Posts: 130
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OMG!!! I just don´t get it..he must´ve been NUTS! I hope the police get him and BUST him or something. But don´t worry, we have this saying that there´s water boiling for every pig..if you know what I mean...It´ll get back to him!

patsylakebears Patsy Lake Bears
Sydney
Posts: 3,442

Sandra what a wonderful thing for you to do, to try and stop the awful abuse, I don't know that I would have been so brave. I am so sorry that you had to go through this trauma, it really isn't something you needed with everything else going on in your life. I hope that you recover from it all.. sending hugs  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

bearhug07 Strange Bears
Sydney
Posts: 444

Just to update you all.........and thank you for all the hugs.....

The police went around to see him and .......can you belive this!!!  He assaulted the female officer who was there!!!!!  There were two officers apparently 1 male 1 female and he appears to have taken exception to the female officer and attacked her.

He obviously has problems with women.......I did wonder why he picked on my rather than the man he was have an argument with.

So at this stage it looks like I don't have to go to court as he's up for assaulting a police officer..........what a total nutter.

The police are having hin assessed as even they think he has a real problem. although they agree it is not readily apparent on first sight.

Anyway I'm now fairly Ok .....except my inner lip feels bruised and sore when I clean my teeth and the scratches on my arm are a bit messy.

matilda Matilda Huggington-beare
WA
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Thanks for the update Sandra. :hug:
Yes it does seem he has serious issues where woman are concerned. bear_wacko  Total wacko aye?

Tammy Beckoning Bears
Nova Scotia
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Oh my goodness Sandra, what a horribly frightening thing to have happen to you.  It sure does sound like that man has a serious problem.  To hit a cop even-sheesh.  I'm glad you are feeling a bit better.  Wow, you just never know what is going on inside someones head, no matter how nice they look.  Take care and get completely healed. 

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Laura Lynn Teddy Bear Academy
Nicholasville, KY
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Oh Sandra!  MY gosh!  I'm late reading this thread and glad you are on the mend... but I'm sure you could still use some hugs!!!   :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:

Although I'm sorry the female officer was also hurt... it worked out well so that he will be punished even worse (hopefully) and it takes the load off of you!

DebbieD Posts: 3,540

What a nut!   bear_angry  And what a relief he's attacked the female officer.  I know that sounds awful, but police don't take kindly to someone who attacks their own.  They can fully deal with the situation now, and you can happily get on with healing and your life  bear_flower

Sending you big hugs  :hug:  And heal fast vibes  :hug:

Bonnie Mountain Dreamer Bears
wooly woods of Missouri, USA
Posts: 1,538

What a horrible and frightening thing to happen, especially when you were just trying to help! I'm so sorry this happened to you!  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:  :hug:
I hope you are feeling better soon. Sending many hugs your way!

Kingfisher Farm Teddies Kingfisher Farm Teddies and Folk Art
Illinois
Posts: 135

Sandra, you must press charges........in doing so you are protecting other women and girls! It takes time, effort, and courage..........I hope you are feeling better...............remember you can prevent someone else this same fate..............Hugs, Pam

rufnut Rufnut Teddy's
Victoria Australia
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Oh Sandra, that is a horror episode, you poor thing.  :hug:  :hug:

Jodi Falk Bears by Jodi
Gahanna , Ohio USA
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I agree with Marion, ... if he would do that to you someone who he doesn't know I am sure his wife and kids are getting the same at home ...PRESS CHARGES and go get checked out , he may have injured you more than you know !!! And it will cost you more money down the road. Thats why we have laws !!! He is guilty of assault plain and simple !!!


Heal up ...... I send healing prayers your way !!!

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